About 2 weeks ago, I learned that my brother has bladder cancer. I think it has finally hit me.
The reason why this is such a shock to the family is that my brother has never smoked, never drank and (probably the biggest) cancer does not run in our family. It's also weird that my father-in-law just went through bladder cancer & having his bladder removed less than 6 months ago.
I've spoken with my brother 2 times within 4 days and for about an hour each time. That is the most I have spoken with him (on the phone) ever. After speaking with him last night, I think it hit me and got me thinking - I need to get things in order. It's always something you don't want to think about, but do you really want your family to deal with the mess. It also makes you think about your life - which I kind of thinking about last week with it being my birthday. Are you doing what you really want? Are you making your goals (whether it's a bucket list, money goals, personal goals, etc)? Are you spending time with the people who matter the most?
Meanwhile, I'm watching Oprah presenting her story on "Oprah Presents Master Class". Wow, does her story make you think!
Just alot to think about lately. We are waiting for my brother's chemo schedule. Until then, it's just a waiting game.
(and their human parents)
This blog started as The adventures of a D.I.N.K. family where the two "kids" are four legged and how we are going to retire early. Now it's a 1 income, 1 entrepreneur, and 1 pup getting closer and closer to retirement.
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Monday, March 28, 2011
What we got in the mail last week (March 20 - 26)
- Free magazines (Entertainment Weekly from Mycokerewards.com)
- Makeup bag, samples and coupons from Target
Meet Me on Monday
1. Crunchy or soft tacos?
Soft
2. Do you scrapbook?
Yes
3. Do you take any daily medications?
Yes
4. What is your favorite sound?
Never really thought about it. I always love hearing a cat purr.
5. Where were you born?
Hornell, NY
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