Tuesday, July 26, 2011

The signs are there today

From Dear Blank, Please Blank

Dear cancer,
I win.
Sincerely, survivor.
I woke thinking of my brother today.  By this time next week, we will know if all of the cancer has been taken out of his body.  I started crying about it, but then I started journaling about it. 
I wrote down "Have faith".  My mind was thinking continue the sentence with "in the doctors", but something stopped me.  The next thought that came to me - "Angels are watching".  I then became calm.
When I signed onto Facebook, the above post from one of my favorite websites was there.  The signs are there today.
Our personal angels are watching over him and he will be ok.  I have text him the message too - Have faith.  Your angels are watching over you.
It was that inner voice telling me.  Our personal angels are guiding us and keeping us. 

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Vacation - July 16 - July 23

Sunday, July 17, 2011


Driving, driving and more driving
We finally left the house around 10 am on Saturday and got up to Watertown about 6pm.  Esa and Zed did great on the ride.  Esa REALLY shocked us and actually laid down on the back seat.  Not all of the time, but a lot of time.  When not laying down, she was sitting on the back seat (another first).  She finally got to her usual seated position with about 1 hour left in the drive.



We only made 3 stops on the way up – one for a bathroom break (outside of Hershey, PA), the second at Wendy’s in Binghamton, NY for lunch and then in the suburbs of Syracuse to get gas.

Lunch was interesting.  We had a “picnic” in the lot by the drive-thru lane and the road leading behind Wendy’s to the truck stop.  One guy going through the drive-thru yelled to us “having a picnic lunch?”  Another lady started to walk towards me when Dan was coming towards me with our food – I’m sure it was to talk about the dogs, but then changed her mind when she saw Dan walking the same way.

Watertown, NY
When we got to the hotel, we found out that the hotel was actually 2 floors and we were on the 2nd floor.  I prefer the “motel” styles with the pups.  It just makes it so much easier when we have to take them out, but oh well.  We’ve done it before we can easily do it again.  We stepped in the room, and it’s a smoking room (pee u), but I heard the guy at the front desk say that they we full for the night.  I figured, whatever, it’s not going to kill us sleeping here for one night.

We then took the pups for a walk and ended at Taco Bell to grab something to take back to eat.  I can’t tell you the last time I had Taco Bell.  It was good.  Then it was time to TRY to sleep.  Well, we believe that Esa was so tired that she couldn’t get comfortable and keep whining and going to the door.  So Dan took her out about midnight.  Come to find out, there was a party in the parking lot.  No wonder the halls were a little loud.  Zed would bark or growl every once in awhile and it also didn’t help with getting Esa to sleep.

Esa would do well, when we (one of us taking turns) petted her to sleep then we would go to sleep.  Until the neighbor’s baby next door started crying, which wasn’t bad, but then they would SCREAM at the baby.  “Go to F’ing Sleep” “I don’t have any “F’ing cereal up here” (I think that was towards the father).  This happened a couple of times during the night.  It didn’t help that the bed was terrible – every creak and crack from it whenever you moved.  It was just a bad night.  So anyway, we got out of there ASAP this morning and got on the road.

O Canada
The drive from Watertown to the cottage went well.  Crossing the border was no issue at all and Dan said that’s the fastest he can remember ever going through.  Zed was a pain - back and forth from the front to back seat – too many turns.  He kept thinking we were going to stop.

We finally got to the cottage about 12:30/1pm.  Unloaded a little and then went over to the neighbors to say hi.  Actually, Esa made her way over there first and then I followed.  She was excited to see her international friends, Luka & Duke.  Then it was unpack the car, make the shopping list and head out.


We got about ½ mile from the house and figured out that we didn’t have the shopping list.  2nd time out, we had better luck and ended up at Ricky’s for lunch before groceries.  It was really good.

Groceries went well - $200 later!  Actually not too bad – kind of equal to our big trips, but with no coupons.  This evening has just been hanging out and will probably be an early night.  It’s kind of humid, so hopefully it will cool down some tonight.

Monday, July 18, 2011

Really roughing it….
So I call coming to the cottage “roughing it” since you can’t drink the water (it’s from the lake).  Well, this morning about 5:30 am, we had a MAJOR thunderstorm and lost power.  GREAT – really going to REALLY be roughing it!

Esa woke up around 7:30 am and still no power.  About 8:45, I called HydroOne (the power company) and found out that over 6,000 customers were without power and they expected it to be on by 9:40.  So we had untoasted bagels and English muffins for breakfast.  Within 10 minutes of eating, the power comes back on.

I had kind of figured today would be a hang out day at the cottage anyway.  But with the rain, there was no way we were going to go geocaching.  So, I’ve finished my first book (Miracle in the Andes) and the pups have been hanging out with their “international” friends – Luka and Duke.  Dan went on the paddleboat while I (and the pups) took a nap.  I started my second book “The Lake Shore Unlimited”. 

It looks like it’s going to storm again so who knows what will happen with the power. 


Wildlife
I forgot to mention yesterday that we saw a beaver about 7:15 pm swimming by.  I was too worried that Zed would see it and go jump in the lake after it that I didn’t grab the camera to get a picture of it.  More than likely we’ll have another spotting.



It’s a little noisy around here.  There is a falcon nest in the trees beside the cottage.  The babies squawk like crazy.  They have been jumping branch to branch, spreading their wings.  I’ve tried to get a good picture and got some.


The pups (and their international friends) had fun chasing a squirrel this morning.  We were next door talking with the neighbors and Esa saw a squirrel.  Of course the other 3 followed.  The squirrel ran around the tree a couple of times (with all pups following) and then up the tree with all 4 dogs looking up at it.  Esa and Zed were the last to let it go.  I basically had to pull Esa away and Zed finally left the tree.  It was cute.

Book Review – “Miracle in the Andes” by Nando Parrado
A lot of the books I find out about are because they are at the newsstands at work and I go and glance at them.  This was one of them.  I had mentioned it to my boss at the time and she got it for me for Christmas.  We both enjoy stories about adventures (of course, this one was an unplanned adventure).

This story was wonderfully written and you could easily picture yourself there/watching a movie of this.  This is an amazing story of survival.  It’s just unimaginable on how these guys survived 72 days in the Andes in the bitter cold - Along with trekking through the mountains to get to civilization.  Would I be able to do it?  Maybe when I was in my 20’s like these guys, but no way today.  Would I be able to eat the flesh of humans?  In a life or death situation – probably.  Would I be able to mentally survive afterwards and live a “normal” life?  Probably not.

The story was a real life “Lord of the Flies” and “Lost”.  You get a survivor’s point of view of the different personalities and who were the leaders and who were the followers.

It was a very easy read and hard to put down.  You kept wondering what was going to happen next.  I thought the pictures were amazing.  They looked like guys out on an adventure and not who were stranded in the mountains left for dead.

These guys had the will to live – and Nando expresses how strong that was for him in the book.  He was determined to get back to his father.  When he did, he saw how his father’s life had fallen apart.  Without his return, his father would not been able to live.

I liked the follow up on Nando’s life and all of the survivors.  I’m shocked on how normal their lives are.  Of course, deep down, I bet they live their life to the fullest and enjoy all the moments they have with their family.  At least, I hope they do.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

The annual chase
Well, the trip to Canada wouldn’t be complete without Esa taking off at least once.  It happened this morning.  I ended up chasing her about 4 houses down the street – Dan was still sleeping.  She just started walking after something she smelt and wouldn’t listen. 

She got a head start since Zed was outside with me and I had to get him inside first, get her leash and go after her.  It didn’t help that I only had flip flops on and with the grass still damp from the morning, I had no traction “in” my shoe.

I finally got her after about 5 minutes (maybe a little more). 

Geocaching
We went to Warsaw Caves & Kettles today. 

Of course, we always have an adventure – even when we are just pulling out of the driveway.  Dan was working on getting Esa in the car and had said to me, leave the tailgate open.  Well, we left it open as we pulled away from the house.  LOL.

Within a mile from the house, we had to stop because a whole flock (if that’s what you call it) of wild turkeys were crossing the road – with all different aged babies.  Some really small others a couple of months.

We went to the cave side first – what a mistake with puppies.  It was very rough terrain in certain places.  Especially when we went down by the water.   Esa was just pulling like crazy the whole time – not very safe when everything is damp!

We were trying for an Earth Cache down by the water, but we couldn’t figure out what “knobs” were and what “slab” we were supposed to be at.  So we decided to go back up – it was hard enough getting down.  Esa decided to make a jump up the slab and slid back down into the water between two slabs – That’s all we need, for Esa to sprain a leg.  Then of course, Zed does the same thing.  Luckily, I grabbed his harness as he was sliding backwards, because he probably would ended up between the two slabs.



After that, we decided to just stay as close to the trail as possible.  We went a little farther and decided to turn around – it was just too hard with the pups.  So we went to the Kettles side.  Much easier!

We started down the path and found one geocache – you could see it plain as day from the path – too obvious.  No camouflage or anything.  Dan got it while I “tied” the pups up on a down tree and got them some water.


On to the next one – we decided to go towards the lookout instead of the kettles – bad choice.  The geocache that was hidden at the lookout had a lot of DNFs (did not finds) and no real clues in the logs.  We tried our best, but gave up.  We walked a little further and decided to turn around.  It was about 1pm (about 2 hours into the trip).  Esa was getting tired – she was actually laying down when we stopped.  Still – Esa kept pulling though! 

We got back to the car and both of the pups crashed.  Dan decided to keep the GPS on while driving back and when we got close to one (in a cemetery in Warsaw), we stopped and he jumped out and got it.  Then we just drove straight home.

It doesn’t sound like we did a lot of walking, but my pedometer said 7,777 steps (about 2.2 miles) plus the terrain – it was a good workout!  Overall, it was a good trip.  The pups had so much fun going up the stones, jumped crevasses, looking down crevasses, and just sniffing around.  I felt I looked down more than up and around when we were moving – afraid I would slip.  Still it was fun.

Tomorrow we are going to a regular park, so it should be much easier terrain.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Geocaching
Today, we went to Jackson Park.  We went there 2 years ago for geocaching.  There were 4 caches that we wanted to find.  We found 3 out of the 4.  By the 4th, everyone was tired.  We walked about 2 miles – this time easier terrain. Most of the time anyway.  We started on the wrong side of the water, so had to skip rocks to cross.  Zed wasn’t really into it, so I had to pick him up and carry him over.

We chatted with a couple with their 11 wk old puppy – actually a couple of times since we kept crossing paths.

Weather
Well, we are back to hot and humid again.  Monday night, with the storms, it ended up being really nice yesterday.  Luckily, there are a lot of fans here!  Oh, we did lose power for about 10 seconds again on Monday night.  There were storms all around us.

Book Review – “The Lake Shore Limited” by Sue Miller
This was a book that was given to me by one of my managers at the airport.  It was an advanced reader edition and probably something I wouldn’t have bought.

It was a good summer read.  Different chapters were based around each character and how their lives intertwined/the relationships that they had with each other.

The main story was about Billy, a playwright and how she wrote stories about her life.  The main play in this story was about her boyfriend that she lost in 9/11, BUT she was going to breakup with him, so she had mixed feelings on how she felt about his dying and how she should act.

This is actually the first story I have read that mentioned 9/11.  Weird how history can be used in a novel and you wonder if this really touched home with someone.  First of all, if you lost someone in 9/11 and truly missed them, would you dislike this book?  Secondly, what if someone was in the predicament that Billy was in and not know how to react?

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Weather (again)
It’s so FREAKING hot here – it’s crazy!  When we checked on Friday, it said it was going to be in the 70s/80s – nope – more like high 90s.  We both feel really bad for the pups – at least we can go to a/c places – they won’t even get into the water to cool off.

Shopping
Today we went shopping at Walmart, got more bottled water, grabbed some crazy tasting potato chips (ketchup, General Tso’s, Buffalo Wings and Bleu Cheese, and Ballpark Hot Dog) along with onion and ketchup flavored Doritos.  I had talked about the ketchup ones at work and wanted to bring some back.  We bought a bag of Buffalo Wings and Bleu Cheese on Sunday for us and let me say – they taste like the real thing!

The plan was to stop at McDonald’s and use the wi-fi.  Unfortunately, we couldn’t connect and it was so busy that we couldn’t get anyone’s help.  So much for getting a little connected while here!  We’re just going to wait until we get home.

Going home early?
We might head out tomorrow depending on the weather.  This is just crazy hot and we both can’t get comfortable plus feel really bad for the pups.

This sucks – we are both having a relaxing time, just uncomfortable with the heat.  So, we are going to check the weather/news and make a decision.  If so, then we will just drive half way tomorrow and then the rest of the way on Saturday.

Book Review – “Mennonite in a Little Black Dress” by Rhoda Jensen
I had seen this book in the bookstore and put it on my TBR (To Be Read) list on paperbackswap.com.  I was able to pick it up at the Loudoun County Public Library book sale a few weeks ago.

I really enjoyed this book.  It was sort of like the storytelling idea.  It was based on today, but then had stories from her childhood.  It was also great that at the end of the book she had a little Mennonite “history lesson” so that the reader could understand a little bit better the religion and lifestyle.

Anyway, it gave me some ideas for storytelling.  Basically when something today happens that reminds you of something that happened when you were a child (or later).

Friday, July 22, 2011
Last day of vacation – luckily, it hasn’t been too hot today.  It’s about 80 degrees out, but really no humidity.  I just got a text saying that it’s going to be 102 degrees at home.  OK!  We made out today!

We have just been hanging out at the cottage and Dan is going to go get a few geocaches locally (it’s like 2 pm).  I’m going to pack and clean a little then hang out and read.

Book Review – “The Nobodies Album” by Carolyn Parkhurst
This is another book that one of the managers at work gave me.  It’s another advanced reader that I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t have bought if it wasn’t given to me.

It’s basically a story about re-writing an ending of a story.  It had several endings of different books (that the main character in the story had written) with the revised ending.  One thing that I thought about is Parkhurst would have had to thinking of XX number of stories to put in this one novel!  That’s just crazy! 

It was a good summer read.

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Home!
What a long drive home yesterday, but we both figured that since our layover going to Canada wasn’t that great, we might as well keep driving.

Both pups did really well.  It did take a while to get Esa in the car after the lunch stop, but that’s not that bad since we stopped at least 4 times.

The worst part was at the 1000 Island Bridge and the border.  It took us an hour to pay the toll, get over the bridge and get through customs.

We stopped at McDonald’s for lunch in Whitney Point, NY and had a picnic.  There was a geocache about 200 ft away, so he went and got it while the pups and I hung out on the blanket.

We finally got home around 9 pm.  We just emptied the car and relaxed a little then I went to bed.

Today,  EVERYONE slept in – I did until about 9 am.  Esa was just so exhausted that she is just laying around today.  I unpacked everything and took a nice long shower.  It felt nice to have clean water and not lake water.


We went to the movies to see Harry Potter.  Great movie.  I’ve never read the books, so the story was all new to me.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Trip to see the family and celebrate a graduation

Friday (July 8) we headed up to Hornell for my niece's high school graduation.  We finally got up there about 4 pm or so since we didn't get out of here until about 10 am.  It was a TERRIBLE drive - it rained from the time we got to Gettysburg to almost crossing into NY.  We stopped once for lunch at McDonald's in Sellingsgrove and let the pups out.  Then Dan found out that there was a geocache in the parking lot, so he tried finding it, but the rain started to get heavy, so he gave up.

We got to the party around 6:30 pm and it was a packed house with good weather.  We were there until about 10 pm.  I got to see my brother, Brett - who I haven't seen since 2006 (at Aunt Helen's funeral); his wife, Kim - who I haven't seen since I think since 1997; my nephews (Brett's oldest), Ryan - who I also haven't seen since 1997; and Chad (Brett's youngest) - who I haven't seen since 2003.

This was the first time I've seen my oldest brother, Vincent, since being diagnosed with bladder cancer.  His color was good.  I knew he was losing his hair (it was like baby hair all over his head) but it was shocked to see his hair was white. Although I have never met our grandpa Caprarulo, Vincent looks like his pictures (that's a compliment).

Unfortunately, the cancer has spread some and is also on a large artery in his leg.  He is hoping to have surgery on July 20 or the 1st week of August.  The doctor said that if he was much older they wouldn't even try the surgery on his leg.  The head surgeon will be performing the surgery, so he will be in good hands.

Brett (left), Vincent (center) and me

(l to r) Chad, Chrissy, Ryan, VJ, and Mae

Saturday, we got down to my brother's about 11 am, hung out and then went to their cousin's graduation party at a local park.  There was a geocache in the park so we invited Tomi to come find it with us.  She had fun trying it out.

We then went to the living sign in Canisteo for 2 geocaches.  What a steep hill it's on!  The pups and I got to the bottom of the sign and let Dan get the caches while we waited.  It was an adventure getting there, since I had never been and wasn't sure where to park.  We ended up walking a little bit since we parked at the high school instead of the elementary school.

Then we headed back to my brother's for a little bit because Mae wanted to go geocaching with us.  The pups stayed at their "aunt & uncle's" while we went.  We went to the cemetary - I thought there was a geocache there and I wanted to get pictures of the family gravesites.  I'm glad we went because Helen's death year has still not been put on the gravestone and I think it was moved over/not where it's supposed to be.  We saw a really cool headstone there - it was carved like a tree stumb about 8 feet tall.


We ended up finding 2 out of 4 geocaches.  The last one was cool - it was a fake birdhouse.

We waited until 9 pm for Chrissy to get back from work, but she didn't get home, so she stopped at the hotel to say goodbye to us.

Sunday was the drive home.  Luckily, the weather was nice.  We stopped twice once in Williamsport, PA (at the McDonalds and there was a geocache there!) and then in Thurmont, MD at Roy Rogers for lunch.  We ended up meeting a couple who were biking (motorcycle) back to Lexington, VA at Roy's and had a good chat with them.

The pups were so good on the ride up and back.  Zed would come up and lay on my lap awhile and poor Esa sat except for about 30 seconds when she tried to curl up and lay down.  She just doesn't relax in the car.

They both did really well at the parties too.  Everybody is so impressed that they are so well behaved with all of the people and food.

Once we got home, we all crashed for a good 2 hours.

Super Double Coupons at Bloom

Bloom had "Super Double Coupons" today - double coupons up to $1.99.  That means stocking up on doggie treats!

The best part - 60% in savings (paid $34.35 and saved $50.05)!  Here's the list of what was bought:

  • 4 popsecret - bogo and 2 $1.00 coupons - $1.96
  • 4 Dole fruit cup packs - $2 and 2 $1 coupons - $4.00
  • 2 Marcal 4 roll tp - $1.49 and 2 $1 coupons - free
  • 2 Milkbone minis - $2.99 and 2 $1 coupons - 99 cents
  • 8 milkbone gravy bones - $3.29 and 4 $1.50 coupons - $14.32
  • 1 Milkbone soft & chewy - 3.49 and 1 free wyb 2 boxes coupon - free
  • 2 cesar soft treats - $3.99 and 2 $1 coupons - $3.98
  • 2 Waggin' treats - $3 (on sale) and 2 $1 coupons - $2
  • 1 Pedigree bone - $4.29 and 1 $1 coupon - $2.29 
  • 1 20oz diet coke - $1.69

Monday, July 11, 2011

Catching Up!

YIKES! Where to start? I had been meaning to blog last week, but never got around to it. Where to start…..


Bark & Play
There is a new doggie daycare that opened up that is basically less than 2 miles from our house. A week ago Wednesday (June 29), I stopped by because I thought it was the grand opening day, but they still had last minute construction. I got to meet the owner, Pam & her sister, Dani and talk to them. They were more than willing to match the price at Dog Day Afternoon. Which is great!

They asked me to bring Esa by on Friday (July 1) so I did and she had her “interview”. Saturday (July 2) we brought Esa and Zed by and Dan got to see the layout and hung out a bit. Saturday was their official grand opening, so they had an artist doing caricatures. At all of the visits, I was a little worried because it wasn’t busy at all. Of course, it was a holiday weekend. Hopefully, it’ll get busier. They did say they had like 8 dogs signed up.




Blog Move

So Yahoo is closing their blog portion this week. Yahoo 360 is where I first started to blog. For about the last month or so, I have been moving all my former blog entries (Facebook, Myspace and Yahoo360) to Blogger. What a chore! Anyway, it is interesting re-reading my entries. Some things I have forgotten, some things were sad to read again, some were funny – all a part of why I have a blog.

Stupid Myspace though – I’ve lost about 6 months of entries (October 2007 – April 2008). I can’t figure out how to contact them either – there is a FAQs section, but no direct e-mail to customer service.
4th of July
No big plans happened on the 4th. Dan was working so pups and I hung out at home. Z was all in an uproar with the fireworks, but I figured out if I cuddled with him, it calmed him down and he would growl a little, no barking. I still would rather have him aggressive towards the noise than afraid.

Work
We have been extended at work until December 31, 2011, but with a 30 day kickout. So once again, just month to month, but just making plans like we are here until the end of the year. It’s VERY frustrating and unmotivating, but better than no job at all!
Book Review and other
So I finally read “A Million Little Pieces” by James Frey. I have had this book since it was announced as an Oprah Book Club selection. Since one of Oprah’s last interviews was with James Frey, I wanted to read the book and catch up on the old interviews before seeing the latest interview and the Behind The Scenes show.

Maybe I would have thought differently if I read it before knowing that some of it was fabricated, but just the flow of the story, felt like a story and not a memoir. A lot of it, I was thinking how did he remember this if he was detoxing and so sick? The dentist story line was definitely a red flag for me – a root canal with no Novocain? No matter what, it was a great story.

So after I finished the book, I first went online and read the interview where Oprah basically lashed out at him then I watched the 2 day interview and Behind the Scenes. Wow – what a story! I’m so glad it came full circle and everything is fine between them.
Car Problems – AGAIN!
So last Wednesday, the check engine light came on in the Jeep. WTF!!!!! I was hoping it was just a fluke and it would go off, but no. Thursday, we dropped it off and they finally called around 1pm to say that it was an internal transmission code. WONDERFUL! Anyway, it ended up being a short day at work for me since Dan needed the car to get to work. When I talked to the service rep, he said that a transmission flush might help, but don’t know. So, I said to do it. The next step if it comes on again – a new transmission (according to them)! WTF!!!! There’s only 70K on the jeep and it’s not like we don’t take care of it!

So, Plankton (our Nissan Sentra) was transportation for the trip this weekend to New York and who knows what will happen for our trip next weekend to Canada!

If the light does come back on, we decided we will go to AutoZone to see what the code is before taking it into a transmission specialist. We have lost faith in Virginia Tire and Auto.

We don’t like the manager and his attitude. When I mentioned we have spent $6000 with them on both cars this year, he said “I would hate to have those cars!” REALLY???!!!! How about “That’s why you are our favorite customers”. How does a clutch give out after 8 months? How do you not give a customer something extra for damaging their car? We really need to change mechanics – of course, it’s up to me to figure something out.

When I picked up the Jeep, the guy who helped me check out was wonderful. He explained the whole part that the code was saying was bad (the torque converter) and suggested to drive it around town to see if the light comes back on before taking it on a long drive.

So here’s to the light not coming on again……..

Saturday, July 2, 2011