NOTE: This is totally my opinion and how I saw the show.
Last night TLC had on a show called "Extreme Couponing". I had a feeling it was going to show the "crazy" coupon people out there (or at least show them in that light) and it did.
These people are on the brink of OCD and hoarding. My one exception is Joyce House (3rd story). She isn't to the extreme with the trips and does pay. Her story was the most realistic. I can see getting papers from friends and neighbors. I can see explaining how to use coupons to other when they ask. I do NOT think it's right to go up to strangers and say "you better have a coupon for that" in the store. We didn't "see" her stockpile, but I did see unorganized piles of stuff in the background - not a good sign.
The first story, Amanda, was the very extreme. She skips time with her family to shop!!!! Hello - the deals will still be there! You have a whole week to get the deal at the store AND they have these things called rainchecks. Her stockpile has taken over the house in an unorganized way. How do you know what you have? (Granted, I don't know everything I have, but it has not taken over the house and is organized in storage bins). Emotionally, there is something wrong. You can tell there is a strain between her and her husband (maybe it was because of the show, but I'm sure he agreed to do the show too). Her stockpile is too big for 2 people.
Joanie (2nd story) was OCD. She even said that she reorganizes her stockpile and when they were putting things away "it has to be neat & facing the same way". Her stockpile might be a little too much for her family of 4 (?), but also the fact that they lived off of their stockpile when her husband didn't work shows what a stockpile is for. I can see the dumpster diving (questionable if it is legal or not), but why don't you just ask your neighbors for their coupons or pick up the papers that are hanging around the neighborhood or neighborhood recycling bins (I do not agree with Joyce's going on someone's porch to take their paper unless she asks)? I would not dumpster dive. I have picked up the papers that I know have coupons in them when they have sat in the driveways & on the sidewalk for days or at a vacant house. I thought about asking neighbors to let me know if they don't want their coupons and I would come by and pick them up. However, after this show, forget it! (Just searched for Joanie on the web. She has her own website called The Krazy Coupon Lady.)
Nathan (story 4), was a hoarder. He has some emotional issues. How is "every man's dream" a 2 car garage full of stockpile? And then the extreme of it - how many salad dressings, deordorants & toothbrushes can 2 people use. I found out today that he has his own website similar to the one I use that is called We Use Coupons and that Amanda is also on that website. Also, he has videos on Youtube.
Two of the people PAY for coupons. No way - be creative and get them free.
The show only showed one person who donates, yet he had a HUGE stockpile for 2 people - that is wrong. You will NEVER use all of those salad dressings by the expiration date even if you ate salad every single day and used a bottle on each salad! I hope they all donate.
Which leads me to: Extreme Couponing for Charity. This is what extreme couponing is for. Yes, get your stockpile for your household (a reasonable amount and not hoarding), but DONATE to the less fortunate plus you get a tax deduction. If I can get a good deal on something we don't use or don't need, we donate it to Loudoun Interfaith. We also donate to Loudoun Animal Shelter. Items not used at the shelter are used as part of the CARE program.
Intereted in what other people thought of the show? Check out Hot Coupon World's forum on the show or just do a search for "Extreme Couponing" show.